Many of the voices in your head that cause you to distrust yourself, to mute your voice and to reject your light, are not yours. They are the echo of collective survival archetypes that latch onto fears that you have yet to transcend.
If you’ve followed my work for a while, you may know that I often talk about 4 main fears that hinder our ability to be seen and expressed in the ways we truly desire. The fear of humiliation, alienation, loss and persecution. These fears are the core pillars behind self-abandonment.
Because as human beings we are adaptative machines, we are all equipped with protection mechanisms that shield us from these fears and the pain beneath them.
These safety mechanisms often take the shape of survival archetypes that become voices in your head that will hijack you and cause you to repress your authenticity.
Some of these archetypes are the inner critic, the saboteur, the victim, the imposter, just to name a few.
The grip of these archetypes can be so strong that you might have a hard time differentiating between their voices and your own.
Even though at first glance each one of these archetypes seems to be hindering your true nature and a return to your power and brightness, they all hide a higher purpose. They all represent an endarkened intuitive guidance that needs to be illuminated and reclaimed. They are all a rallying cry for more integration. And when you embrace that path, you begin your reclamation.
Embracing the initiation
There is an initiation that is needed every time these survival archetypes flare up. When your saboteur derails you, your inner critic rages, your imposter shrinks, and the victim collapses, it makes sense that the first impulse you have is to want to dissociate from these aspects. That would also rob you from the wisdom that they hide.
Just to give you a nudge for instance, behind the rageful bouts of your inner critic, there is an invitation to truly individuate, to let your life be led by your own values, and not the echo of the shaming you received when you didn’t honor the values of people who raised you. There is an invitation to explore how the fear of alienation is still running the show in your life and how you can uproot the limiting grip of that fear.
There is a method to this practice. It demands that you romance these survival archetypes enough and that you awaken from their trance in order to reconnect to your power. It often requires a detour into the shadow so that you may disarm the fears that unconsciously cause you to call upon these protection mechanisms.
This work is a reclamation. Challenging these archetypes will rewire your inner landscape and enhance your capacity to let yourself be fully expressed.
Prompts
Here is a good place to start to begin this journey. Complete the following prompts in the most spontaneous way you can…
I get hijacked the most by the imposter, saboteur or critic within me when…
What these archetypes seem to be protecting me from is…
What they often cause me to repress that I now wish to reclaim is…
What comes up for you? What is it that your soul is asking of you to reclaim the most at the moment? Share your thoughts below.
Your reclamation is here…
I’d love to extend to you a special invitation. This Sunday I am hosting a in-depth workshop called RECLAMATION (of course :)).
Reclamation is a 4-hour skillfully crafted live journey designed to help you
Break free from the limitations you've adopted as your own.
Dethrone the survival archetypes that dim your brightness: imposter, critic, saboteur, prostitute and victim.
Reclaim the energetic stamina to express your authenticity, lead with impact, share your gifts and your brightness to the world
Unleash your creative potential and dissolve the resistance that stifles your voice
Lead, love and serve from your heart, not your wounds.
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As always, thank you for reading.
In gratitude and reverence,
— Xavier
So much gold here. Thank you 💛 just the word ‘Endarkened’ brings me relief as it is in my darkness that I mine my gold and diamonds and have done for decades. All of this obsession with playing in the light has left me cold for so long. The ‘love and light’ brigade! Aaaargh! 🤦🏽♀️. I am here to reclaim ‘my’ Voice, power, purpose and Energy ….and it isn’t just mine. They also belong to my ancestors who tried to so hard to stay safe. Fierce reclamation! 🔥🔥
“This work is a reclamation. Challenging these archetypes will rewire your inner landscape and enhance your capacity to let yourself be fully expressed.” ❤️ Ahhh, thank you.
It is not easy to face the shadows, to let them come out fully, but it’s the only way to let them be seen by the light.