The energetic boundary no one talks about
And that you're going to need to unleash your gifts and authenticity
What comes to your mind when you think about allowing yourself to be unleashed and seen in ways you crave but haven’t allowed yourself to embrace yet?
I’m going to share with you what often comes up automatically for many people I’ve worked with.
They start pondering the question: “how am I going to protect myself from the vulnerable exposure?”
This is something that we know at a cellular level.
There is a vulnerable exposure that comes with revealing your truest self, your innermost aspirations and your creativity with the world around you. Can you relate?
How do you often deal with that vulnerable exposure? Do you deal with it at all? Do you simply hide? I mean truly, how do you manage it?
That vulnerable exposure is something I often compare to getting “spiritually naked”. It’s about baring your soul.
It’s human to think about how to protect yourself from potential hurt that may unfold.
I mean… humiliation, alienation, loss and persecution are very painful when they are directed at your true nature. Would you agree?
I thought I would share with you what I consider to be one of the most potent and most underrated energetic boundary out there.
It might sound overly simple at first glance, but the depth of it will surprise you.
Well let me put it this way:
If you take personally all the ways the world around you will respond to your authenticity, your gifts and your creativity, you’re setting yourself up for suffering.
Does that give you the hint yet? If not let me put it very plain to you and then we will discuss the inner workings of that.
The energetic boundary I am talking about is about not taking anything personally, especially the ways people react to your craft, your gifts, your authenticity.
That’s the reason it’s one of the 4 agreements from Don Miguel Ruiz.
The reality is that what hurts you most is what you internalize.
Yes I know, it’s easier said than done. Way easier said. Why? Because your light is personal. Your authenticity is intimate. Your creativity and your crafts represent your innermost expression. So to you, it is tremendously personal.
So what a conundrum! Not taking personally how people respond to something that couldn’t be more personal… I think it’s just a bit mind boggling. Do you agree?
I believe that self liberation lies in embracing contradictions.
The question is therefore, how do you do that?
How not to take personally someone’s reaction to something personal?
I know that ultimately, it’s just a choice and a decision. And that could be enough for you to make the shift.
The reality is that the answer to that question is a bit more tricky. The reality is that you actually don’t take everything personally.
We only take personally reactions and remarks that strike a chord within us. They usually trigger an ancient wound or they might reveal aspects of ourselves that we often keep in the dark.
That alone could be a great pointer. What are the things that you truly take personally? Have you ever wondered why? Have you wondered what lies beneath?
These aspects of yourself that are often hidden in the dark, when you allow yourself to see them with a new quality of love and compassion, become integrated.
The outcome is that you become less sensitive to the opinions and perspectives that other people have.
It’s as if the psychic free radicals that they direct your way are bouncing off of your energetic field.
There are very few things more satisfying than witnessing someone criticizing you in ways that would’ve caused you to lose your ground before, and instead it doesn’t throw you off center.
That is the energetic boundary at work.
There is a blueprint to this practice. It’s easy to say don’t take it personally. But sometimes that awareness is not enough. Sometimes the need for integration is deeper.
And when you embrace that work it becomes easier to lead, love and serve in the ways your soul requires you to.
That blueprint is what I will take you through during SEEN, my next 6-week immersion. The journey begins Wednesday 09/25. If the journey resonates with you, now is the time to join.
We are moving through times of collective revelation and SEEN is your initiation into your personal revelation.
The reason why I’ve been invited to guide this work is that I started noticing how during the times of uncertainty we are going through collectively, it has become so easy to hide.
And I really think that it is quite the opposite that is required of us.
So if you consider yourself to be a trailblazer of any kind, I think more than ever before it is time to reclaim the energetic stamina to unleash your inner Self, more fully. More boldly. More outrageously.
SEEN is a descension into the shadow so that we can lift the anchors that keep you unconsciously in hiding.
SEEN is a return to your most inherent blueprint. It’s an initiation to help you build the somatic body and spiritual stamina needed to express your truest nature.
Please head over HERE for more details and to save your seat for this immersion.
In gratitude and reverence,
— Xavier
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“Seen is honest and heart centered work. I loved how vivid the journey was. Xavier and his team built a VERY safe place for women and men alike and that was refreshing. The experience really touched my heart more than my mind. It was the boost I needed to allow myself to be seen, to open myself to a new relationship, to step out of my cocoon and bring my offerings to the world.”
- Juanita Pacheco