When the world demands your evolution in real time

The things that will slowly become unsustainable from now on...

Nov 04, 2025

If you’ve been keeping up with what I’ve been talking about this week, you probably know that I mentioned self abandonment A LOT.

Now, this is certainly not new. I also wrote about it in chapter 2 of Scars of Gold extensively.

The tentacles of self abandonment run deep. And it plays a big role in our suffering.

The reason why it is such a core pattern to undo, and why it comes back many times on our journey, is because it’s not just about healing. It is about evolution. I mean it quite literally.

Transcending self abandonment requires that your nervous system evolves. That your definition of safety evolves. That your identity evolves… into someone who can hold freedom at the cellular level.

And then, it starts showing up in all the areas of your life as a result.

I devoted an entire podcast episode to this.

Yup, the Enheartened podcast is back!

And we dive deep into what it looks like to dispel self abandonment especially during challenging times.

You’ll find the details down below to listen or watch, so please keep reading!

The point I am trying to get at is that the world around us is demanding that we evolve in real time.

The “new paradigms” of expansion that many have been talking about… You know, what some would even call “new earth”… they all have your truest self unleashed as the foundation.

Let me say that differently.

The life you dream of, the relationships you crave, the impact you wish to bring to the world, they all have your truest self unleashed as the foundation.

Would you agree?

So transcending self abandonment in all the ways you can, is not just about you. It goes beyond it. It is a collective responsibility.

This is the reason why the world has become such a pressure cooker of personal transformation and self liberation. Yes I know it doesn’t feel like it at times. But that’s how I see the highest purpose of these times.

This is also one of the reasons why I created the workshop Alchemy of self abandonment, and I am inviting you to join me live for this journey.

We start in a little over 24hours.

Here’s what we will actually do together in this workshop, and how it will support you in your life and leadership:

Illuminate where self-abandonment still hides
You’ll uncover the subtle emotional, relational, and spiritual patterns that cause you to shrink, self-silence, or betray your truth, even when you “know better.”
Rewire your internal definition of safety
We will work somatically to shift the nervous system from associating safety with hiding… to associating safety with authenticity, visibility, and self-respect.
Reclaim the parts of you exiled for belonging
You’ll meet the versions of you that learned to dim, comply, or perform, and bring them home so they no longer sabotage your expansion.
Dissolve the core archetypal fears that keep you small
We will explore and move through the foundational fears: humiliation, alienation, loss, persecution, and ego-death… so that they stop running your choices.
Withdraw power from the “inner self-rejector” archetype
You’ll recognize the unconscious inner force that polices your expression, and begin reclaiming authority over your voice, your light, and your gifts.
Rebuild capacity to hold your truth and be seen in it
Through guided practices, we will expand your nervous system’s ability to express, be witnessed, take up space, and stay open even when it feels edgy.
Create new internal agreements for soul-aligned living
You will leave with a clear inner commitment that makes abandoning yourself no longer an option, in your work, relationships, creativity, and calling.
Activate your next level of self-trust and sovereignty
It’s about anchoring a new identity grounded in self-loyalty, personal power, and embodied authenticity.