In this live, we explored the subtle but life-changing distinction between performance and true expression.
I truly believe that everything in your life is conspiring to get you to stop performing and instead to truly express what is true.
Expression is what flows when you stop negotiating with truth.
Performance is what happens when your truth still feels unsafe, even when your heart craves to express it.
And the part most people miss is that even hiding is a performance.
In this live, we explored:
Why your nervous system finds performance exhausting and unsustainable
Why people go through cycles of express → brace → retreat → recover
Why inconsistency is not a discipline issue, but a nervous-system one
Why trying to express perfectly is one of the most effective ways to stay silent
The difference between honoring silence and hiding behind it
Why these times are demanding the end of performance, collectively and personally
That is exactly why SEEN exists.
SEEN is not about pushing you to express more.
It’s about stabilizing your voice so expression no longer costs you your safety.
It’s a six-week immersion designed to support:
Integrated, non-performative expression
Nervous-system capacity for visibility
Building the capacity to unleash your gifts and your craft more boldly
The collapse of the masks that once kept you safe
Staying present in the aftermath of being seen
We begin in two days.
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→ www.xavierdagba.com/seen2
What former participants have to say about SEEN
"I've invested lots of money, time, and energy into various programs to support me in my personal healing and business with various healers, mentors, and guides. SEEN was truly at the top and well worth the investment for the energetic shifts and unique insight that Xavier shares. The heart resonance and coherence that I felt the whole time was very nourishing. It affects how I approach harnessing my voice and it's truly a game changer. It was the right time for me and these teachings for sure and I'm excited to witness how I integrate and embody this further. Big things ahead and I know this is the work I'm meant to be leaning into right now."
- Kerry Ferber
"There are few coaches in this world as skilled, wise and generous as Xavier. And I’ve worked with some great ones. As a professional singer-songwriter and coach for 40 years, the experience of being SEEN is profoundly far-reaching for me. In his 6-week SEEN deep dive, Xavier led us through the hard stuff, with grace and compassion, that felt like a sacred pilgrimage into my soul. I feel like I’m just scratching the surface of what has now been made possible. My focus has shifted, from awkwardness to humble willingness… to be more SEEN. Insecurities, flaws and all. Thank you, Xavier, for your loving contributions to my life and this world."
- Deb Chamberlin, Artist & Coach
